A Summary Of The Characteristics Of The 4 Adult Relationship Patterns

Our relationship pattern and the ability to take care of and calm our emotions are interconnected. This connection is to a large extent based on childhood experiences which also impacts our expectations of to what degree we can depend on and get help from others. These expectations are also connected to beliefs about our self-worth. […]

Some Of The Characteristics Of A Fearful/Disorganized Adult Relationship Pattern

Secure relationship patterns and the ability to take care of and calm one’s emotions are interconnected. The foundation of this connection is made based on childhood experiences with trusted ones, foremost our caretakers, especially our parents. As been mentioned in earlier posts, we humans develop expectations of to what degree we can depend on and […]

Some Of The Characteristics Of an Adult Insecure Ambivalent/Resistant Relationship Pattern

Secure relationship patterns and the ability to take care of and calm one’s emotions are interconnected. The foundation of this connection is made based on childhood experiences with trusted ones, foremost our caretakers, especially our parents. As been mentioned in earlier posts, we humans develop expectations of to what degree we can depend on and […]

About What Characterizes The Avoidant Relationship Style In Adults

Secure relationship patterns and the ability to take care of and calm one’s emotions are interconnected. The foundation of this connection is made based on childhood experiences with trusted ones, foremost our caretakers, especially our parents. As been mentioned in earlier posts, we humans develop expectations of to what degree we can depend on and […]

Characteristics Of Adults With Secure Relationship Patterns

Secure relationship patterns and the ability to take care of and calm one’s emotions are interconnected. The foundation of this connection is made based on childhood experiences with trusted ones, foremost our caretakers, especially our parents. As been mentioned in earlier posts, we humans develop expectations of to what degree we can depend on and […]

How To Use Understanding As A Tool For Handling Stressors

Today’s post continues with Antonovsky’s concept Sense of Coherence that focuses on handling stressors and how health can be increased (see link to Mittelmark et al in earlier posts for research in this field). What determines whether stress will be harmful or not is whether or not the stress violates our sense of coherence. This […]

Characteristic’s Of Children & Adults With Disorganized Relationship Style

Secure relationship patterns and the ability to take care of and calm one’s emotions are interconnected. The foundation of this connection is made based on childhood experiences with trusted ones, foremost our caretakers, especially our parents. As been mentioned in earlier posts, we humans develop expectations of to what degree we can depend on and […]

More Signs Of Insecure Relationship Patterns In Both Chlidren & Adults

Secure relationship patterns and the ability to take care of and calm one’s emotions are interconnected. The foundation of this connection is made based on childhood experiences with trusted ones, foremost our caretakers, especially our parents. As been mentioned in earlier posts, we humans develop expectations of to what degree we can depend on and […]