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Reflections: More Happiness Research

Happiness research can according to wikiversity.org be summarized in 10 points. Here are the first 5 of those: 1. Having a proactive life which includes continuously setting positive goals and tasks. Proactive people are 15% more satisfied with their lives than more passive people. 2. Having an active life with regular physical activity keeps both…

Anxiety & Mood | Feelings

Feelings: Fear – More About How To Make An Actual Exposure

Exposure is the main technique to constructively handle fears, i.e. with the aim to living the life you would like and not avoiding doing the things you would like to be able to do. There is research showing that the brain never erases things or situations that it has been afraid of, but instead keeps…

Healthy Routines | Mindfulness | Self image | Self-esteem

Self-esteem: How To Enhance Self-efficacy

Much research has been conducted on the four major psychological processes through which self-efficacy affects human functioning and hence can be increased: 1. Cognitive Processes: Much human behaviour is intentional and regulated by forethought and valued goals. The stronger the perceived self-efficacy, the higher the goal challenges people set for themselves and the firmer is…

Anxiety & Mood | Healthy Routines | Mindfulness | Stress

Mindfulness – The Breathing Anchor Part 2

Here comes the third part of the breathing anchor, an exercise using the breath as an anchoring point since our breath is always with us and hence can be used to anchor us in the present moment. This is a seated exercise of in total 5-10 minutes depending on pauses/pace: … Breathe in and breathe…

Healthy Routines | Stress

Stress: 3d Building Block: Use Stress Management Habits

This post is about the third of the 3 important building blocks of stress management: 1) regulate you stress level 2) handle stress sources and 3) use stress management habits. Stress Management Habits: 1) Stress-proof your daily life 1 Use the stress-scale, see separate post under stress on www.jennyrapp.com 2 Identify early warning signs such…

Healthy Routines | Life goals | Self image

Life goals: The Life Wheel in Two Dimensions

Last week we started with the life wheel, an illustrative tool used in coaching to identify the areas in your life you would like to change, your dimensions, as well as a list of 10 possible dimensions you could consider to be drawn on a dartboard-like illustration with 10 circle areas, see illustration. The scale…

Feelings | Healthy Routines | Life goals | Mindfulness | Relationships | Self image | Self-esteem

Reflections, rest and celebration: Some More Happiness Research

There has been much research into the field of happiness since it is closely connected to perceived wellbeing. There are correlational findings about human happiness identified by psychologist Martin Seligman, one of the thought leaders within the field of positive psychology. He proposes the following 5 dimensions: 1. The importance of pleasures in daily life…

Anxiety & Mood | Disorders | Feelings | Stress

Feelings – Fear and Phobias

As mentioned in the last post, fear is a powerful, primitive and lifesaving emotion. Fear makes us aware of danger and entails important learning mechanisms. We avoid things we fear based on what we have been through and experienced. Phobias entails having an avoidant behaviour toward specific situations and items. Usually phobias are developed towards…

Healthy Routines | Self image | Self-esteem

Self-esteem – How To Improve Self-efficacy

Bandura’s concept of self-efficacy is about one’s beliefs about one’s capability to perform specific tasks, independent of the value attached to that act. Self-efficacy has 4 main sources of influence: 1. The most effective way of creating a strong sense of efficacy is through experiences of mastery coming from achieved successes, which build a robust…